20 Tantalizing Sex Bucket Ideas to Empower and Alter Your Sex Life
Monotonous sex is boring. Resuscitating your stale and predictable sex life requires stepping out of your comfort zone, being creative, and opening your mind. Borrow a few items from my current sex bucket list, or employ them all, to take your sex game to the next level.
Mile High Club — I’m guessing this will be tricky on a commercial flight during these times. That’s ok…..that just means I need to manifest BOTH a private jet flight and an in-flight romp. A girl can dream!
Bone someone powerful— The closest I’ve come to this is making an ex pretend to be President Obama. Whew that really turned me on. YES, I ABSOLUTELY CAN.
Role Play — I like the idea of being someone else. It puts a new spin on the relationship. Embody this new character completely and even add costumes to the mix,
Zoom session — Would you believe me if I told you that I’m a little shy when it comes to the nasty? Ironic, right? Mix it up a little with a virtual sex session in between actual hook-ups. See if you can get off with mere visuals and words alone.
Toy Story — I promise I’ll do a complete review of the turbo charged vibrator supporters are helping me to buy here. Why not elevate your sexual encounters by using toys to get each other off? There are literally so many options out there, that this one could keep you occupied for a while.
Tantric Sex — The mind-body version of sex. Instead of racing to the finish line. Tantric sex is all about the slow build-up, reconnecting with your partner, and lavishly taking your time. Think long game. Like more than 10 minutes…Intended to give you more intense orgasms, this has been on my list for a while!
New places —You don’t have to stick to just your bedroom, you don’t have to restrict yourself to just your home. I recently did it on my dining room table and I — oof!
Kama Sutra — Most people are not limiting themselves to missionary, but there are infinitely more positions than doggystyle, reverse cowgirl, and the amazon position. Why not consult the 200+ positions that Kama Sutra offers?
Multiple Consecutive Orgasms — Make having multiple orgasms your next mission. There is definitely some work involved that makes this more obtainable. Think Kegel exercises, setting your intention, breathing etc. However, it’s within your reach. Also, don’t just receive. Be the partner that wants to GIVE multiple orgasms. One good turn, clearly deserves another.
Marathon — Have sex as long as you can. Relish in the act until the cops come knockin’. Or see how long you can maintain daily consecutive sessions you can have before you finally tap out.
Squirt — I had no idea what I was missing out on until a few years ago. Orgasms seem stronger when they are accompanied by squriting. With enough practice, you can actually control it and do it at will.
Learn a new trick — Take a sex class or workshop. Expand your sexual knowledge. Take what you already know, to another level.
NSFW — Send mid-day nudes….We place so much emphasis on the actual act and not enough on the build-up. Start wooing your partner before you hit the sack with a series of racy nudes and erotically charged sexts.
Anal play — Be it rimming or penetration. Lube up, breathe, and let your inner freak fly.
The twofer — Attempt a simultaneous orgasm with your significant other. The couple that cums together..
BDSM/Kink — There is a large scale that this encompasses: from light restraint, to golden showers, cuckholds, “edgeplay”, and the list continues. This is all about your level of comfort and willingness to try things that don’t come naturally for you to do. Remember that this is an experience taking place between you and your consenting partner, so don’t feel stiffled by judgement.
Japanese Rope Bondage — Otherwise known as “tight binding”. I separated it from regular BDSM because it can be considered a form of art. Similar to tantric sex, it’s all about emphasizing the journey and relishing the build-up, as opposed to only concerning yourself with achieving your happy ending.
Pompoir —Solely using vaginal muscles to stroke his dick. Sex is acheived through a series of vaginal contractions as opposed to thrusting. Kegels is the gateway to pompoir, but pompoir is infinitely more intense and requires a lot more control.
Threesome — Nuff said.
Silent sex — Depending on how vocal you are, this can prove to be a real challenge. Not being able to utter a sound will only intensify the moment.
