Harsh but True: When a Man Really Likes You, You’ll Know

It’s a shame that it needs to be said, but some women don’t want to accept it. Heed the warnings and the signs. He’s Just Not That Into You! I’ve read the book, I’ve seen the movie. I also have life experience. Cancel the brunch meeting. No need to call in the analytical team composed of your closest friends looking for signs and clues in the text messages that he did not send to you. If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer, but let’s review.

When a man is truly into you, you don’t have to wonder. He makes it blatantly clear that he likes you, and he wants to get to know you.

Anything less than this, he has other priorities that take precedence over you,

Are you confused by his behavior? Why split hairs over it? Instead, just move on. There are too many willing and able men out here, to waste your time trying to figure out where things went wrong with one man.

A very long time ago, I read somewhere that a man would rather chop his dick off than be upfront about his waning interest in you.

While I can’t say with certainty that this is completely true, I can say that I’ve never, ever had to guess about a man’s interest in me that truly liked me.

I know. It seems so unbelievably simple, it’s almost painful, but this is useful, sage advice that will change your dating trajectory.

You will always hear from a man who is into you.

I’m not saying that he will text you 50 times a day. That’s overkill and I’m not sure why you would even want that. What I am saying is that you will hear from him daily, or maybe every other day, if it’s early. There is no amount of busyness in the world to keep a man away from a woman he is into. If you aren’t hearing from him, just move on.